Goals and Ideas

  • COMING OUT LIKE A PORN STAR

    I made a book?… I made a #$@&%*! book!!! Five years ago I decided to stop keeping my work in porn a secret from my family. After all, I have nothing to be…

  • Birthday Wish: IRONMAN 70.3!

    I don’t often ask for birthday gifts, but this year I have a big goal. Last summer, I completed my first Olympic Triathlon. It was incredible. Immediately after, I signed on for another…

  • Happy New Years!

    Introducing this year’s Holiday Card image, created by artist Alicyn Murphy and based on this photo by Shilo McCabe! Thank you Alicyn for your amazing work. (Find more of her erotic embroidery at Society6.) And thank you everyone for…

  • Fisting Day is October 21st 2012

    Fisting Day is coming up on October 21st, and I’m so excited! Courtney Trouble and I created Fisting Day last year to celebrate, educate, and explore the sexual act of hand sex. It…

  • Williams Queer Porn Recap

    Last weekend I spoke at Williams College as part of the Mike Dively Committee Twentieth Anniversary Celebration, which is funded from an endowment intended “to develop an understanding of human sexuality and sexual…