These are some authors/books I like.

Haruki Murakami | The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle

Michelle Tea | Rent Girl, Valencia, and more.

Dr. Haunani K. Trask | From a Native Daughter

Julia Serano | Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity

Tristan Taormino | Sex educator, author, director

Violet Blue | Blogger and so much more

Carol Queen | Educator and director of Center for Sex and Culture

Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt | The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities

Jack Morin | The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment (Paperback)

Audacia Ray | Naked on the Internet